As relationship researcher Logan Ury explains, you can choose to turn to your partner in these moments and accept their offers to connect, or turn away and ignore their offers. Every time you choose to turn to, you are making a deposit into your emotional bank account.
Notice when your partner makes an offer. Show interest, ask questions, nod, listen and put away your screens.
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